After having a little holiday celebration with one of my very best girlfriends, I realized I forgot something on the list of my last post.  And that something is: Girlfriends give you the confidence to shoot for the stars.  Aiming to run a marathon by the end of the year though you’ve never moved faster than a trot?  Planning to ask your boss for a raise?  Starting your own blog? Expanding your business? Publishing a book?  If you’re feeling less-than-confident about your dreams for 2011, check in with a girlfriend.  My hunch is that she will give you all the courage you need.